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Congruence is Always the First Step

Mar 08, 2024

When it comes to manifesting your dreams, taking action alone is not enough. Before you can bring your vision to life, you must align your thoughts, emotions, and feelings with what you desire. Pushing against your current circumstances or trying to fix problems without first changing your mindset will only attract more of the same.

If you’re thinking, emotions, and feelings are not first vibrationally aligned or congruent with your vision, then there is not enough action or work in the world to compensate. Pushing against your present situation or trying to fix the problem, without first changing your thoughts and feelings about it will only bring more of the same situation to you. You have to focus on what you want as an end result, not the chaos or problems around you.

Action without congruence will only result in frustration in experiencing more of what you do not want or more of what you already have. You have to achieve vibrational alignment or congruence with what you want (vibrations are the marriage of thought, emotions, and feelings).

When you focus on the problem in front of you instead of what you want, you will never achieve success; you will only receive more of what you already have.

There are six qualities you need to master in achieving Inner Congruence.

  • Be in love with what you want to create

    Love must always come first. People commonly experience the problem or project first and the love for the vision second. According to Robert Fritz, author of Creating, love must be generative rather than simply responsive in the co-creative process. You must love the idea so much that you are willing to take whatever necessary actions to bring the concept into materialization. When you care about your vision, you bring so much love to it that you do not need to be inspired.

  • Always maintain enthusiasm

    The best tool at your service is to hold enthusiasm for every step of your attracting your goal. Enthusiasm expands your communication with the Universe, and the Universe responds positively. Your enthusiasm for the project becomes contagious and attracts the right people, circumstances, and opportunities to you. Spend twenty minutes a day with thoughts and feelings around your goal - thoughts that evoke fervent, optimism, and enthusiastic emotions around the materialization of your dream. 

  • Practice Self-Sacrifice and Striving

    Self-sacrifice means to rid yourself of any attitude, doubt, or motive that does not add to the life of your work. Get rid of thoughts and emotions that do not support the materialization of your vision. Be diligent in watching your thoughts and feelings and not identifying with anything negative around your goal. You have to let go of your chronic watchfulness of the situation you are in; you have to let go of the struggle you are exerting. 

  • Let go of the idea you have to work harder

    You must let go of the cultural idea that you only have to work harder to succeed. You must instead focus on your goal and feel good about your vision despite what is happening around you. In every conscious moment, your vibrational field is active and overrides any action you may exert. Before engaging in any activity, you must seek congruence with your thoughts, emotions, and feelings. Only then can your actions work for you. When you have that inner congruence with what you desire, the action you take is decisive.

  • 5. Avoid talking and thinking about what you don’t want

    The way to avoid repeating unwanted circumstances is to talk and think about the wanted situation. The only beneficial work is to think and feel good about what you want and discontinues any thoughts, feelings, and discussions about anything you do not want to experience. In response to this congruent work and action, the people, and the environment around you will give you precisely what you expect, and there are no exceptions. 

  • Feel the results of the desired result of achievement

    This focus is the most potent action you can offer to heal and change your current understanding of negative attention. One way to start the change is always look at the positive aspects and expect good outcomes from all you do. If you are negatively focused and not feeling good, you can only attract people and experiences with the same energy or vibrations state. That is why seeking success or acting while feeling unsuccessful can never bring you the experience you want, but instead brings you an experience that reflects the exact need you are holding inside.  

No matter how many courses you take, how many books you read, not many how hard you work, or how many hours you put in, you can never overcome the energetic alignment within you. We live in a Universe that is based on vibrations, and that means anything you put emotion and energy into becomes part of your attraction field. When you look at something and say "yes," it becomes a part of your vibrations, and when you shout "no" at something, you also include it in your beats. When you say "no" to something with emotion, it becomes part of your energy field. And the harder you work against it, the stronger it becomes.

In every conscious moment, your vibrational field is active and overrides any action you may exert. Before engaging in any activity, you must seek congruence with your thoughts, imagination, and feelings. Only then can your actions work for you. When you have the inner congruence to attract your desire, the action you take is decisive.

By mastering these three qualities and bringing them into congruence, you pave the way for the manifestation of your vision. Remember that action without alignment will only bring more of what you already have. So, take the time to align your vibrations with your desired outcome, and watch as the Universe responds positively, bringing the right people, circumstances, and opportunities into your life.

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